Ttc is this normal?

Hey all, it’s now been 2.5 years of ttc and just received yet another bfn. I don’t know how to put this but, I’ve grown tired of sex. I’ve come to resent my relationship because I can’t get pregnant. I don’t even want to be looked at sexually anymore, I just can’t enjoy sex. Would you say it’s time to take a break? I love my boyfriend but idk it almost makes me mad at him, like why can’t I get pregnant. I’ve done everything I can on my end but he refuses to get checked because “he knows it’s not him” but I think it is. So it’s making me resent the fact he won’t do something simple and get checked so that we can start a family that he wants soooo bad😪😓

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Ky

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Yes, I would think so. What keeps me ttc is it’s fun, my SO and I enjoy it. It doesn’t turn into a chore at the end of the day. And I don’t make sex a necessity! If it doesn’t happen, it’s not the end of the world. I find stressing about those little things, probably doesn’t help the ttc journey. Find yourself again mama and try when you’re ready and happy!!

Ka

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Yes take a break. Talk to him again about going to get checked.

Gr

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How does he know it’s not him? I remember when my boyfriend had to go for his semen analysis, he was so nervous, he felt it would make him less of a man if there was an issue with his sperm. It look a lot of reassurance from me, but he did it - turns out there was absolutely nothing wrong with him and I had very minor issues (a lazy left ovary) but we went down the ivf route as after 3 years of trying we wanted our baby. I think you need to have a firm conversation with him, if he isn’t willing to do something as simple as a semen test to help ye start a family well then maybe you guys aren’t the right match. If ye went down the fertility clinic route literally the first thing they check is semen analysis and a women’s day 3 and day 21 bloods

Br

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Yes