People going crazy on this app

So somebody asked if they should TTC & I responded by saying that she might miss out on a few things like being alone In ultrasounds & Appoinments Maybe even giving birth, & few more things that we look forward to in pregnancy. So this girl is literally coming at me because I said that. She said because she’s 34 & she needs a biological child now but wouldn’t that be selfish ? but honestly I dont want her to go thru what where all going thru. Was my comment wrong?