Is it ok 4 your mate to watch porn while their having sex with you?..

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Only if we have decided beforehand that we were going to be watching porn together while we have sex. But if we didn’t and I look up and he’s looking at his phone, it would be off putting.

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If your ok with it. If you guys have talked about it. Relationships are about communication.

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I think context is important here.. if you’re watching it together then sure why not! If they need it in order to perform during sex then no I wouldn’t be okay with it! I’m understanding that porn can be an addiction but using it as an aid to even perform sex will only make the addiction worse! Or if they are watching it without asking you/ because they would rather watch that then be in the moment with me no I would not be okay with that

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Communication is key in something like this. If you’re okay with it, go ahead and give it a whirl but if it is an addiction then it is something your partner needs to seek professional help for

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Why are you asking? It’s up to you & your partner what you allow & don’t allow. No one here is going to give you a “right” answer because there is no right answer. Again...you & your guy do what you want & is okay with you guys.

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Too make the situation worse, it FETISH PORN abt woman of another race he was watching... Which meant  there was no way possible he could have somehow, TRIED, to say he was thinking abt me...
   He knows I ain't n2 that shit, nor could I EVER compare 2 a woman of another race 🤦🏾‍♀️

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Ah! I meant to hit no. That wouldn’t be okay with me.

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I had a problem with this recently.
I just started seeing this guy and we’re in quarantine rn, we were FaceTiming and he was watching porn. He told me, it wasn’t like he was hiding it but I was so uncomfortable and honestly almost mad.
I’m 100% new to this whole relationship thing and I didn’t know how to tell him but I told him it was soo ok with porn, I watch porn, I don’t care that he does.
But not while I’m around??!? Made me feel useless and jealous of a screen!
I’m not used to this jealousy thing it’s so weird to me.
I’m also not used to the security of a relationship, he tells me how much I mean to him all the time. Literally tells me I’m a queen and all that and yet I’m jealous? Is that normal? Am I overreacting or is this just part of it?
Is it going to go away?

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Yes but not every single time. Sometimes we like to put it on the big tv and have sex in the living room. It can be fun.

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I misread this as ‘is it ok for your 4 year old to watch porn’ and clicked no 😅

Is it ok 4 your mate to watch porn while their having sex with you?..

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