Tears “down there” after sex😬

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for quite awhile and at the beginning I believed that the reason why I kept tearing down there was because we tended to rush the foreplay and jump right into it but now after a good 2 years, even after taking our time with everything I still tear. I know the main reason may be because he has a “sizable package” but is there a way to avoid this from happening? Or at least a way to help the healing process a little more? Any tips will help a ton. Thanks 🙂