My Story, I made it as a Single Mom

I recently became a single mom about 9 months ago, My husband decided to not only leave me,but our kids as well. The first week was extremely hard , i couldnt eat , i couldn't sleep , let alone in our bedroom. I was neglecting my children since I was just extremely despressed , he left us with nothing , i didnt have a job at that time and all the money we had he completely cleared out our accounts. After a week I realized to myself why am i getting myself in such a pickle when this man would constantly cheat, spend our money that was needed for bills, abuse me mentally and physically. I realized i was free from him, free from the horrible pain and misery i felt over the years. I found a job, worked my ass off to pay off my bills that were all past due. I worked on myself, build my self esteem, build friendship that i wasnt able to have. Showed my kids that happiness doesnt come from a person,it comes from within. I used to think i couldnt do it without him , wouldn't find anyone to love me because he would get in my head no one will. but here i am 9 months later free from a man who tried to control me, I found myself and o couldn't be any happier. I lost weight , taking back the happiness he took from me. and honestly i feel 1000% better than i did in years. Since being alone ive lost 69 pounds, and i feel amazing. I'm a better mother towards my babies. Ladies never feel like you needs to depend on a man, Because in reality we don't need them , they need us. ❤️

heres my before and after

and ofcourse my babies