Help meeee

So I found out I have genital herpes yesterday.

I’m 34 weeks pregnant...

I don’t think I’ve ever had an outbreak until now.. it’s extremely painful so I feel like I’d remember this. And I read you have your first outbreak 2-10 days after exposure.

But I also heard some people have it for years and never know.. so does that mean they never have an outbreak?

I’m just trying to figure out if I’ve had this for awhile and just never had an outbreak or if I need to start assuming my husband cheated on me?!?