Over it

I cook. Clean. Do all the dishes and wash all our laundry... I take care of our child... the ONE THING I do for myself is play a stupid little game on my PC... that's WHEN everything else is done.. so it's not often... today I'm playing my game in the living room while husband and toddler try to find things on TV to watch... I get a phone call from my grandmother and it's already hard to hear her... suddenly my husband and son start roughhousing and screaming and laughing... I turn and ask them to be a bit quieter.. my phone is charging on the laptop and I'm trying to close my game... my husband mockingly says "yeah son be quiet" and starts tickling him again making him scream again I ask them to be quiet and the same shit happens... It takes a minute to close out my game then i unplug my phone and go outside and shut the door.. by then my grandmother is telling me bye.. not even sure what she was saying.. I go back inside and start cleaning since why the fuck should I open my game again... I put lunch in the oven and close my laptop and put it away and my son trys to engage with me.. I tell him "I'm sorry but I dont want to play right now.. I'm not happy with daddy or you since you both knew I was on the phone and couldn't be quiet for a few minutes"... well my sensitive son starts crying and my husband is pissed and starts calling our kid back and says "you didnt do anything wrong.. mommy should have left the room if she was on a call.. when I get a call I leave the fucking room.. not expect others to be quiet"...

Then they both went upstairs.... I'm fucking fuming.. I'm crying because I dont get anything to myself... I made 2 different breakfasts today because husband wanted something different.. I made a home cooked lunch.. like why couldn't they be quiet for 5 minutes.. it was literally 5 minutes...

I'm just done... I'll go cry alone now since my husband and kid are upset at me..

Eta:

I see what others are saying.. I didn't yell at my child or punish him.. I just simply told him I didn't feel like playing and why.. which is how we are raising our son to be... we try to validate his feelings and emotions.. hiding our own doesnt help him learn that.. he also knows that when someone is on a call it's a time to be a little quiet.. not silent.. but definitely not screaming and screaming and laughing...

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