Confused about guys...

Okay so I just broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months a few weeks ago because a few things happened. He was talking to other girls. He was very controlling. Was never very happy with me. I couldn’t do anything that would make him happy. All he wanted was sex. He wanted nudes from me all the time and I never sent to him. But if I told him no he would get all mad and say I don’t care or love him. I decided it was time to end things. But now I’m in a situation where I have to pick between 2 guys. They’re both amazing people and completely opposite from my ex. Ethan is so funny. Sweet. Caring. Kind. Not afraid to speak his mind. And so many other amazing things. His smile can make me smile and blush and melt my heart. Andy has been through so much with me, he has always been there for me to talk about anything. He’s so close to Ethan about sweet. And kind. And caring. I just don’t wanna hurt either of them. But I know if I date either of them they’ll treat me how I should. I don’t know which one. Any advice?