young girls shouldn’t be ttc if they can’t handle the judgement

gonna start with saying i haven’t seen this on here, most women ttc no matter their age are proud once they finally conceive. well on facebook not so much 😑

it’s no secret that people think you should be out of school, settled down & married or at least 30 before having kids. so when you’re 19, 20, 21 & still in school, not married, renting an apartment... yeah, people will say shit. but how did you try to conceive and go so long thinking “oh everyone’s gonna be excited for me”? even though i know my mom and grandma will support me, they are going to flip their tops. but guess what. it’s expected. i’ve known since i started that i was going to get a negative reaction from most people. because i’m young & in school. & that’s FINE. all that matters now is my baby so people can say whatever they want.

if you want to be grown enough to get pregnant, be grown enough to handle the judgement. don’t get on a facebook group and start crying about it. 😒

aaaand i’m 21 & pregnant so i know what i’m talking about 🤣

also i’m not saying to let people talk shit 💀 when i announce i’m 10000% getting shit for being pregnant and i’m telling every single person to go fuck themselves. so definitely tell them off. but don’t be all surprised & crying because the reaction was negative.