I messed up

So my mom decided to let my brothers fiancé move in with us during this pandemic last week Wednesday. She just thought I’d was heartbreaking and the fiancé was always crying.

None of us have it but she agreed to quarantine in our basement for two weeks.

Now my brother still spends plenty of time with her, 6 feet apart.

Saturday I was messing around and my lack of empathy self said that I could hug my brother and she couldn’t, we had been goofing around all night. She started bawling. I start to apologize profusely and my brother hugged her. I told them I wouldn’t tell them went upstairs.

The next day I’m talking to my mom and it slips out. She’s understandably upset, but little did I know she talked to them about it and now my brother wants me to apologize to his fiancé for telling my mom, and again for the hugging thing.

I should note that none of us like his fiancé, doesn’t mean I should’ve done what I did, but I think I should mention it. We think she’s a terrible influence on him, as she takes his money and has excuse after excuse why she’s never worked a day in her life.

I’m in a relationship as well, but I’m not crying because I can’t see him or hold him, because what’s the point? It aint forever, and I definitely didn’t expect her to cry, nor was I trying to be mean.

I do plan to apologize, again, and I do think I shouldn’t have told my mom, but then again, I didn’t think theyd get in trouble

It’s important to note he’s 24, she’s 23, I’m 21. We are all adults. And again, I know I messed up and plan to apologize so no need to tell me.