Venting about my life

So this might just be me venting but also wanting some answers. I’m a 25 year old mom, my son is 5 months old 6 months on May 14th. I work full time as a daycare teacher, he goes to daycare I pay OUT of pocket for because his dad can’t handle him basically all week long well fine ya I will live.. but idk since he’s been in daycare I just kinda feel like things are getting worse. It’s honestly never been good I’ve always been the one to deal with my son and tonight it kinda just pissed me off. Was giving my son a bath like I do every night, no one bothered asking me if they wanted to hold the baby or feed him while I ate so I didn’t eat cuz his dad was finished eating and smoked a cig cool but than he never came and got his son to hold so I could. Than I’m throwing a pitty party because it’s already 9 pm and I work 9 am and I’m up every single night with baby cuz his dad doesn’t even come to bed he just sleeps during day basically. Ask him to clean the room because the house were in rn is his dads and it’s a small house with 9 people.. like I’m seriously annoyed and just feel like no one gives a fuck at how I’m being treated.