Boyfriend’s Mom?

My boyfriend will be 22 on august. Now, before I say this, yes I know there is a virus going around but the signs are obvious.

We’ve been together for 3 months now. Not a long time, but long enough to point out suspicions.

When we first got together, we spent a lot of time together (as most new couples do.) Then, she complained that “we spend too much time together, nobody should be seeing someone that much.”

The coronavirus outbreak knocked a dent in that, so we’ve kept it to a minimum of once a week since the stay-at-home orders went out.

However, this “once a week” thing is based off of him telling his parent’s he’s “going to work” when he’s actually coming over, because his mom won’t allow him to come over here— yet is perfectly fine with him working with the public, going to his cousin’s house, going out to do literally anything except coming over here or being around me.

He says he knows she’s doing it, but he won’t speak up. He says that “speaking up will do no good because she won’t listen.”

I feel like this is unfair to me. It upsets me quite a bit. I haven’t even met her and she has this unspoken hatred towards me for no reason.

And she still has an issue with how long we talk. When he works all day and gets off, obviously I’m going to want to talk to him, but he has to “spend family time” with them for hours without being on his phone because she raises hell when he’s on his phone around them.

Am I the only one who sees an obvious problem with this?