never reached climax

Hi,

so this is like proper embarrassing but i just feel like this is a good opportunity to talk about it.

I’m 18 and i’ve never had an orgasm. I recently came out as lesbian & have a girlfriend and we haven’t had sex yet- obviously due to lockdown things- and i’m just worried it’s gonna affect our relationship.

When i say i cant orgasm i mean like NEVER, not even when masturbating. And i’ve tried lots of like different techniques to do it and it just never happens.

It feels like it’s either getting too much so i have to stop myself before or i feel it coming then it just like stops and fades out.

like i’m just a bit concerned that it might be something more serious than i thought and it’s just like frustrating anyway,

thank you.