Need advice for my friend please !*update*

So long story short my friend is 16 weeks tomorrow and feels as if she has to get an abortion bc everyone in her life is falling apart “bc of the baby” BD mother found out and made her call the doc in front of her to set an appointment for the abortion. (BD has been wanting one since he found out and hasn’t stopped talking about it).but they couldn’t bc the system was down and is suppose to call her back when it’s back up but I just need advice in to make sure she’s ready for that and that she really wants this. I’m all for your body your choice but she has said since she found out that she doesn’t believe in abortion and would never have one.i just don’t want her to break in the process of making sure everyone else is okay.

Update;

So I tried and talked with her for hours for the last 2 days and thought I had gotten through but she went to BD house that night and made an appointment the next day (today5/1) to go through with the abortion. I’m so sad for the baby my hubs and I even offered to adopt the baby(we haven’t been able to conceive ourselves ttc 3 yrs)if she didn’t want the baby but didn’t want to go through with abortion. I really wish she would’ve kept it I offered her many outs of this i wish she would’ve taken the help we were offering.