i don’t satisfy him

this happens in every mf relationship bruh my boyfriend just told me he feels like he has sex with an inanimate object. and that i do “nothing” when we’re being sexual.

i’m so upset bc the reason he feels that way is bc the one time i was being loud while having sex he got mad bc i was too loud. that’s why i stopped . he barely eats me out because he doesn’t like it but begs me to suck his dick every time i see him even though he knows i don’t like it. i don’t beg him to eat me out it just seems so unfair and how does he expect me to even want to express myself better sexually when he basically told me how bad i sexually frustrate him. i never know what to do it seems like i can never satisfy anyone. in the beginning i was very loud and i expressed myself a lot sexually and i did up until he got upset w me for being too loud like idk what he expects idk what to do first i’m too loud now i’m not loud enough.

i wish he came about this subject in a different way then straight up saying i’m an inanimate object during sex.. .. thanks for coming to my ted talk