My husband told his family

I’m pregnant after multiple losses in a row. My husband and I were planning on telling his family together at dinner. However, he was on the phone with his grandmother. And I could hear her talking about my pregnancy?! Excuse me!? Literally LAST NIGHT we were talking again about telling them next week. He told her weeks ago and kept lying to my fucking face. Over and over. I’m so done!

Am I not the one carrying the baby? Am I not part of the telling them? It’s NOT his first. It’s his second with me and he has others by different women. I feel so betrayed, how do you just sit there and lie to my face every single day? I specifically asked last night if she knew because we’ve asked her to watch our oldest for the 3 appointments we’ve had. He laughed it off saying “no I only told her they were appointments. Not doctors appointments.” LESS THAN 24 HOURS AGO. She’s known for weeks!?

Is it not my baby too? It being his baby is an excuse to lie to my face for the last 16 weeks? Especially when we’ve had this plan in place to tell them all next week? It’s fine?

Adding: “I’m done” doesn’t mean ending the relationship. Good lord.

I’m sure you all were able to announce your pregnancy’s? You wouldn’t be upset if someone took that from you before you could make sure the baby was healthy? Or when you were ready? I’m sure.