If you could choose to be an only child with more “fun money” or to be raised with a sibling, but with more conservative spending, which would you prefer?

I know this is a flawed framework, and is ultimately a personal decision. I just keep going back and forth on whether I want to try for a second addition in our family or not. My partner and I have a pros & cons list, and will probably deliberate for awhile, as it’s such a big decision. Our children would never be without their needs met, but having a second child would mean camping trips for vacations, being more cramped in our cars, one child would get a small bedroom/ or they’d share the bigger one, that kind of thing.

This will go towards the millions of things we’re considering in making this decision. Also, I know it’s asked a lot, so thank you for humoring me, and participating!

Cross-posted to reach a wider range of perspectives. ☺️