Favorite Kinks?

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Okay, my husband and I want to experiment.
We’re super DUPER vanilla. We’re both raised Christian, and I have a very complicated relationship with sex.
I’ve wanted to try some BDSM, but I’m super uneducated. What do y’all like? What do y’all use?

Z

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I would definitely recommend watching bdsm porn together and also visiting an adult store! These are great ways to see what might turn you on and you can both talk about wants/needs while shopping or watching.

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I would start with a blindfold and work your way up and communication is key

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Just some helpful things to keep in mind:
1. There are no rights or wrongs in kink EXCEPT that your play must be safe, sane, and consensual. This means that, when exploring what you’re both into, you both need to come into the conversation judgement-free. If you’re into consensual non-consent, it might seem “normal” to you to bring this up, but seem completely wild to your partner. React to things he’s into as you would want him to react to you. Have fun but be kind. Laugh and joke around with each other, but be supportive. 
2. You don’t have to participate in anything you don’t want to. Let’s use the example of a foot fetish. If he brings up wanting you to jack him off with your feet and you are NOT comfortable with it, that’s absolutely okay. Be kind, be welcoming, tell him you’re not comfortable, and ask for something else he would want to try. Maybe bring up something else you could jack him off with that you would be comfortable doing. Don’t take personal offense to him not wanting to try something. 
3. Maybe look at fetlife together and explore what’s out there in the world of kink. Are you looking for something close to dom/sub? Bondage? Pet play? Spanking? Choking? Remember that you can take it as slow as you need. I wouldn’t recommend trying more than 2 new things at a time. Say explicitly what you’re going to try before you play. That way you can both know what to expect and be more comfortable saying to slow down or stop if you’re not having fun with it. It’s okay if you realize you don’t enjoy it as much as you thought you would.

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Definitely research BDSM safety, guidelines etc to be safe👍🏾 kinkly. Come is super helpful educative wise, research different BDSM dynamics and actions. Evil lupine on YouTube can help without  actually doing anything sexual, she mainly explains and teaches you. Hope this helps

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