Were your second babies also over 9lbs? Did they come earlier?

OB that oversees my birth center is concerned with my weight gain (33 lbs already) because my first baby was over 9lbs and I gained 40lbs in my first pregnancy.

This baby has measured a week ahead in both ultrasounds and in all fundal height measurements. Wasn’t really concerned until now. I expected to have another big baby, but I guess ignorance was bliss the first time around. I had no idea baby would be that large 😅 Not getting any more ultrasounds. Just wanting some experienced mama input.