Sick and tired of doing everything

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Let me try to make this short. My husband works 6 days a week and has sunday off. You would think that on any of those days he would take care of the responsibilities he has at his home, but no. We’ve fought over it many times. Today was supposed to be one of his days off but he HAD to call his boss and pretty much offer to go into work. We could afford him having an extra day off and no one else works today. I’ve asked him for over a month to do things for the house like fix a bedroom door, coat the roof, move stuff I physically can’t lift to the shed and what has he done in the last month? Installed an AC and fixed a dryer hose and the rest of the time sat on his ass or went to work on his dads truck (Our truck needs actual work because it’s the only vehicle we have and hid dads has been sitting for a long time and he has a back up he uses). The point is I feel like I have to do EVERYTHING. I cash his paychecks, I buy food and bring it home and make MULTIPLE trips to carry it in and put them away. I do the finances and I cut the grass, I do house work and clean. And recently there was a bed frame in the back yard that needed moved and the yard needed cleaned up because there was trash and guess who did that?! ME. I asked him to call the bank to check our account balance (because my phone broke) and he hasn’t done it and he’s had time. There’s things on our porch that need to be taken to our shed so I can clean the porch so it doesn’t look like methheads live here and I bet anything that it will still sit there by next week if I don’t do something and one of those things is an AC that I physically cannot lift. He acts like I don’t do ANYTHING. I’m fucking sick and tired of being the only one doing things! It’s his fucking house too! We have a baby due in less than 5 months and no fucking progress is being made towards a damn thing! All he can say is “I don’t care” he even told me I would retire from watching tv and cleaning house. I’m sorry asshole I’m FUCKING PREGNANT! My back has recently started giving me problems and my feet and ankles swell and sometimes I get so dizzy if I don’t take time to snack that I HAVE to sit down. I’m fucking 22 almost 23 weeks pregnant what’s his damn excuse?! So fucking sick of it all