Should I breakup with him?

Girls, I’m having a really hard time with this one. There are a lot of pros but also a lot of cons and I can’t figure out if I’d be making a mistake or not. It’s not that I don’t think I could find someone else, because I know I can move on. I have before. I just don’t want to regret not giving this relationship my all. The main problems are financial. We were both single parents when we met each other, so both of us with our kids live under the same roof now. He is HORRIBLE with money... I mean, horrible. I know this can be fixed but I just don’t have the energy to help motivate him. I’ve talked to him about it, so have others, but I don’t think he really understands how bad his habits are. He also says I’m talking down to him and making him feel like a loser but it’s hard not to be concerned about it. I was taught to be good with money so this really bugs me when I think of our possible future together. He also has mental health issues. He has bipolar depression so we’re always on this teeter totter that I’ve worked really hard to get out of, because I too used to struggle with depression. He doesn’t experience as much sadness as he does anger, irritability and emptiness. And of course being his girlfriend, I bear the weight of it all. I always question if he even loves me due to how distant he becomes during these phases (which is unfortunately often). We argue very often now because of it and i just don’t want my son to grow up around continuous fighting like I did. We haven’t even been together a year, I just don’t know if I should walk away now and save myself the pain later since I already see it going down. We barely even have sex, and according to him he doesn’t even like cuddling. Wtf? Lol

The pros are that he’s a good guy. He’s faithful, there’s no issue there at all. He helps me clean up the house unlike some I’ve been with. He helps me out with my son. Our sex is great WHEN we do have sex. When he’s in his happy mood, I feel like we’re best friends but unfortunately it’s rare these days. =(

UPDATE: So I followed my gut and did it. And I’m so glad I did because I feel free and relieved. There’s some sadness but not like I expected and I think it’s because his true colors are coming out. I found out he already told his daughters mom and sorts of things, according to her husband (who reached out to me to tell me thank you for being such a good influence for the child) told me that my now ex boyfriend would always call the daughters mom to vent the last three or so years. He said it wasn’t anything bad about me but he always told her if something was going on which to me is weird as hell and inappropriate because I tell my sons dad NOTHING about my relationships unless it’s already over! 😤