Does silent treatment help?

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I had another argument with my partner about the fact that we are not having enough sex only once or twice per week, i tried to talk with him because i caught him masturbating and he acted like nothing happend but he just shouted at me that is my fault. Is the 3rd day we don't speak and he sleeps in the living room. It hurts me so bad because I'm 12 weeks pregnant and I don't even know where we stand at this point. I'm ashamed that I can't even tell my family what I'm going through and I have no one to talk about..

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He might not have the sex drive you do. There is nothing wrong with masterbation and you've now shamed him for that. The silent treatment is childish and isn't going to get you anywhere.

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You want to be intimate with you partner but are further putting a wedge between you two by not calmly talking about why the sex is lacking and wether he or you are stressed, or what is going on that could be affecting it. I know when my husband and I argue or are butting heads a lot, the last thing I want to go is have sex with him.

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I use the silent treatment for a few hours to calm myself down usually to make sure I dont say something ill regret later. Id never use it long term though.

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He’s immature, selfish and childish. This is far away from what love should look like. And you will get further away from him if he continues to throw this shit around. I can’t stand men like this, nor I can stand men who treat their pregnant lady any type of shit way. This is just wrong. He’s throwing fits because he wants more sex? Is this the way to talk to you? Is this the right way to treat you? No. He clearly have communication issues which makes it even harder. I would simply tell him to sit down with me and openly share your feelings and emotions. Get it out all your system. Then walk away. Don’t engage in any type of further conversation because it may lead to an argument. Just say it, walk away and do your thing. Later on when he’s willing to talk, warn him upfront to chose right manners. You are pregnant, hormonal and upset. And it’s time to make things right. There’s no way he will manipulate you, fault your, blame you. If he does that, politely ask him to stop and walk away again. Do not let him upset you more. Just tell him you’ve had enough and he can share his true feelings once he’s ready without any accusations or bed energy.

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Well first off, masturbation is totally normal and it’s super ok if someone wants to masturbate but doesn’t want to always have sex. Secondly, silent treatment never works, but talking calmly about a problem sure does!

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No. Communication is key.....kind and constructive communication

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Okay if you’re not having sex as often as he wants, he can masturbate. He can masturbate regardless. You don’t have to have sex more than you want, and he can touch himself if he wants. Silent treatment will work if you’re trying to end the relationship. Without proper communication you have nothing.

Does silent treatment help?

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