What’s everyone’s experience the second time you had sex?

I recently had a tinder encounter and I didn’t tell the guy it was my first time so he took a few strokes and wanted to eat me out but saw I was bleeding and I thought I was on my period (I know I’m dumb). It didn’t hurt but just a little discomfort since I wasn’t wet enough which is why he was going to eat me out. I know you’re not supposed to bleed if you’re wet and I know everyone’s body is different, but I want to know more or less what I’m in for the second time around lol

Thank you! :)