Is this my fault?

Question

So I was raped 3 years ago and I froze because I was scared. My bf asked me what I would do next time to prevent it. I said it wouldn’t because I wouldn’t go out like partying. And I’ll use the gun if someone broke in. And he said I was selfish for saying that. Am I wrong?

Accepted Answer

Girl, dump him. What does he mean by “what will you do to prevent it”? People get raped fully covered, in broad daylight!! The only reason people get raped is because of RAPISTS. It’s never the victims fault!

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Your boyfriend sounds awful. Maybe take some time and think about what you want and know you deserve?

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Who would ask that?? That’s assuming it did happen again which why would you think it would? Maybe we should focus on people learning not to rape. It happens everywhere not just when partying. It’s sad we have to worry about it because people don’t understand no means no

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Since when is rape the victim's fault. That boyfriend needs to go.

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Not only is your bf assuming it could happen again which is terrible to think let alone say to someone, but he isn't making himself look good by not saying he would be there for you if you needed him or be there to protect you or anything.

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He’s just dumb and ignorant, “what would you do to prevent it” like idk maybe if Ill tell the future I’ll wear a chastity belt so it’s not so “selfish” how would that make you selfish anyways for protecting yourself ? I’d be worried about the type of person he is cause to call you selfish for you saying you’d try and carry a gun he basically has the fucked up mindset of thinking your wrong for choosing your safety after another humans life which means he’d rather let it happen again then for you to protect yourself. He sounds like he has a rapist mindset.

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what does he mean ‘next time’?!! girl leave him. he has no respect

Is this my fault?

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