Longer labia

Something which is NEVER talked about and considered so taboo. I’m 17 and it’s such a stigma that having longer labia which isn’t all neat and tidy is disgusting to boys. It’s my biggest insecurity and the one thing that stops me getting into sexual relationships. Now I’m older I’ve had a chance to get the mirror out and properrr look at my vagina and sometimes I think okay it’s not that bad other times I think a boy will find it gross bc of this stigma. Can we start a conversation?? I feel like this isn’t spoke about enough.