Move Out

As the title states , I really want to just move out . A guy friend ( he's like a brother), my SO and I all live together. Before you ask why dont I just leave, rent is way too expensive here for people who don't have decent paying jobs. I am currently in school trying to get a better one myself.

The problem is , my brother , he's been single for nearly a year. He used to date a female friend of mine , but clearly it didn't work out. Fine ! Anyways. Hes been bringing a whole lot of people in the house since we moved in. Im talking 3 different females a day , kind of deal . They are so comfortable here , that they will leave their body wash and other toiletries in our bathroom.

My issue is , these women are creating a lot of drama and negative energy in the house. Apparently, one of his guest has been stealing food out of our deep freezer. When i explained that to my brother , he acted as if he didn't really care. Im sorry , I spent between $200-$350 in groceries and you are cool with people stealing ?

In one month, we bought eggs in bulk as well as some meat.. A full carton of eggs disappears , and so does a few things of meat. Prior to realizing someone is stealing , I asked him if he cooked it.. nope. I even asked my SO and he said no as well . Where is my food going ?

To make matters worse , he keeps throwing parties , because he's ( and I quote) bored and lonely ... the guest leave the house absolutely trashed , there's ALWAYS drama. One of the girls he brought over thought it was okay to flirt with my SO. He told me as soon as I got home , how uncomfortable it made it. My brother said he , dealt with the issue... the thing is she's done it multiple times.

Before we moved in together , because he was having issues with his last room mate .. They in a way, abandoned him because the pair fought too much. My SO and I aren't ready to buy a house just yet ... so we felt maybe a year or two, renting could help us. I explained to him, that Im not comfortable with the way people are in and out the house. Yes im aware he lives here and pays bills too , but with the recent events.. its just unsettling. Whilst we were on quarantine, he threw multiple parties and had a BUNCH of folks in and out the house ! I talked to him about how unsafe it was for him to do so. Nope , he's bored and lonely and pays $500 to live here. So he can do what he wants.

I dont even bring my friends over anymore because he hits on them or badgers them until we leave. Its creepy and awkward . Now he's telling me he's feeding off the negative energy , now I can see why his room mate didn't want to live with him . He's creating drama between the women he sleeps with and bringing it in the house. Im ready to move out , but we dont have enough saved yet. I hope I get a better job soon so I can finish up saving to leave. I'm done dealing with this..