Passive aggressive??

My boyfriend said to me today that he plans to enjoy his life to the fullest and won’t ever let our relationship get in the way of that.

I was a little upset by that.

I joked and said oh ofc without cheating and he scoffed at me and got annoyed at my joke saying it’s not funny.

I just felt like it was a bit passive aggressive the way he said it.

I’m very affectionate but limit it to not overwhelm him. And more gentle with the words I use. But he’s very upfront.

When we discussed how compared to a few years ago, he’s matured now, we spoke about how this girl complimented his looks and was clearly interested in him. While I was on facetime with him he went off of it to message her and spoke with her for a bit. I got aggravated and said you’re literally entertaining someone who clearly is interested in you, and you’re on call with me and going to entertain her?

I mentioned this and he said no, thats pathetic, I will talk to any girl I want and if it ever goes past a limit, I won’t let it go far. I was literally talking to a girl, it was a normal conversation, and if in the future I talk to any other girl and friend, I won’t let you try to stop me from doing that.

I told him that he doesn’t need to make me sound like that, I was annoyed about this girl and felt uncomfortable, and if he speaks to whoever he wants I trust that he won’t overstep his boundaries, to which he responded ‘good’.

Idk.