Would I be wrong ?

Question

So my friend bd DOGGED her out her whole pregnancy, cheated, said he hope she dies giving birth an put hands on her an she alwayssss runs back, I’m tired of giving advice, helping her when all she does is run back to him an when he hurts her again she comes to me with her sad story.. at this point I don’t even wanna be friends anymore, would I be wrong?

Answer

Ok so I can see y u wouldn’t want to be friends with her anymore but I think really think about her and what she’s going through she seems to really need a friend rn. So I went through something similar (let me first say my boyfriend is amazing we were best friends before we started dating and he’s so different than any I’ve dated before) but in January me and my boyfriend went through a HUGE rough patch which was just fight after fight for so long and I had this close friend that had recently came back into my life (my friend was a part of the fight) and I would come to my friend about the fighting and all the things my boyfriend would say when he would get mad and then my friends got fed up and cursed at my boyfriend and when I told my friend that that’s not what I wanted and I didn’t like that and stuff the next time I came to my friend crying because of the fight/rough patch my friend told me he could longer be my friend nor help and and he was tired of it and not if I couldn’t take his advice he was leaving as being my friend and I apologized for bothering him so much and then he blocked me on everything which really hurt because then I felt so alone I know that my boyfriend loves me and even during the flight patch we would try to fix things things would get better but then there would be another fight but things were slowly getting better. But it really did hurt to lose a friend who I thought I was close to and would be there through my hard times and give me advice or just support till I find my way but once my friend left (for like the 3rd time in our friendship) I realized my boyfriend who before was and still is my best friend was right that a true friend stays through the hard times and wants to help their friend. So I understand that it’s hard and stressful and probably drains you to be helping Ur Friday so much (I have friends like that myself) but i think if you really care about her and are really close friends that you should stay by her side and just try to give advice and if/when she doesn’t take it just support her like a friend. I’m so sorry if this sounded mean and because of how long it was lol good luck 💛 I would say just support her!!

Would I be wrong ?

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