Living with the MIL 🙄

So I live with my fiancé and his mum. We have a son together 2 and a half and we lost our daughter last September.

His mum moved in 3 months ago because of a heart condition.

Since she’s been here I’ve had several comments about my weight. Even though I have said I don’t care. I’m having counselling to cope with losing our daughter and slimming isn’t in top of my list.

Upto now I’ve had

Aren’t you going to try and lose weight for the wedding?

Then when I bought a dress I have had. If you keep having take out you won’t fit into that dress.

You’ll be sad when you weigh your self if you eat biscuits.

Don’t you carry all your weight around your belly ( 2 c sections in the last 2 and a half years)

I ate a mini bag of mini eggs you only get 10 inside and she points to them and says no weight loss this week.

I’m 13 stone. With both pregnancies I have gained a total of 1 stone. But my partner says I’m nasty. Just ignore her. I don’t care about his feeling (somehow this is turned around into he is anxious with the situation)