I am 25 years old. I have had 3 very serious monogamous, committed relationships. All three of these guys (including my current bf) has worked so patiently and diligently to get me off. But it has NEVER happened for me. I have tried masturbation, they have tried EVERYTHING there is to do for great lengths of time. They always satisfied me, but I just never got there. I’m going to talk to my OBGYN about this. I have some chronic health issues, including being pre-diabetic. I have heard that can affect orgasming. I’m getting on here not because I need tips on how to get off. I know everything to do and try, I’ve heard it all. I’m getting on here because I feel disgusting and pathetic and like I’m not a woman. I just want to know if I am not alone in this? Has anyone else had this problem?