My husband is too big for me and it’s causing problems with our sex life

My [24] husband [29] has lost a lot of weight and I’m truly happy for him, however it seems all the weight has gone to his penis 😳

We used to have sex almost every other day—if not everyday. But, now every time we have sex I’m left raw and in pain! He can’t even finish inside me because it hurts.

He’s now 7” which I know isn’t THAT big, but I’m really small (under 5’), so perhaps I just can’t expand that much?

I’m not pregnant. Don’t have an STD. There’s no unusual discharge. Too young to be going through menopause. Lube doesn’t work. What should I do?

He arouses me and teasing is always fun. But he says when I tease him, he believes I’m ready for sex. Which I understand, and I do want to have sex, but no matter how much foreplay we do, I still end up in pain.

We’re still in our first year of marriage and I know he’s disappointed: he’s healthier than he’s ever been and full of energy but can’t have sex with his wife.