I just need to vent and don't know how to handle things right now

Okay, so I just need to get this off my chest

In 2 days my boyfriend and I would be dating for a year now, but with this virus, and him and his sister having a high chance of catching it with autoimmune disease, and my grandma is also at a risk being elderly as well, we haven't seen each other since Valentine's day in person. We video chat when we can with my crazy work schedule. We also call almost everyday, and we have video game dates on our xboxes where we both play a game we both have and talk on xbox party. It's been hard not being able to see him and hug him and all that mushy stuff. We even had big plans for our anniversary only to cancel them with his sister being really sick right now. I don't know what to do anymore, we still love each other and if we could without risking it, we would definitely see each other in a heartbeat. Shoot I'd even leave work just to see him

My dad says if he doesnt take me out on an official date on our anniversary dump him (my dad doesnt care about other people or care to listen about the lives I'm putting on stake if I see him right now)

What would you do?

Risk him and his sister's lives just to see him for one day or wait till all of this is clear to see him and have many dates in the future after the virus is gone knowing its safe to drive to his house(lives with his parents because renting an apartment requires 6+people with steady income now n days, and i live with my grandma for same reason) and spend as long as I can with him