No support at all due to religion...help!!

Long story short. Im wanting to leave my marriage i have kids. Its easier to leave without kids, i stayed for my kids. But I know i deserve better and so do my kids.

1) its draining my health..im completely shut down and eat unhealthy most of the time snacks im depressed. (I do care about my kids i feed them well. Dont attack me) when I get angry I yell at my kids its cus of my husband and i hate this I started to get panic attacks.

2) we are roommates nothing more he doesnt help with kids he pushes them away

3) he wont ever change and this wont ever work out we are two different peoples.

4) he doesnt have time for me! But has time to message other girls. Emotionally cheating. Hes on his phone the time he comes home plays games talks on the phone takes it everywhere im done.

So my question is I didnt really need to explain why I want to leave but I know there are some Karen's out there who will say stay i tried everything I've asked him to go to Marriage counseling and he wont. Anywaysss..... im not asking if I should stay or not I made my choice.

My question is..is this an okay message to send my dad i need his support. In our culture its hard to divorce im muslim.

This is the message im sending him:

Option1: (simple)

So I just want to get to the point i can't be with him anymore its draining my health and its not good for the kids.. i know he wont ever change.

Option2: (option 1 and added why im done)

I just want the best for the kids and I, im not perfect i know that nobody is but how does a relationship work if there is no communication or understanding of each other. We are just living day by day wasting time. He doesnt spend money on things we need and I know he never will. He gets mad at me for spending money on simple groceries... can't even pay my phone bill you been paying for it.

I actually like option2.. from the outside I keep a smile on inside im hurt shattered 💔 depressed. Im heartbroken writing this i never wanted A broken family but I can't live in a toxic relationship my kids don't need this. 😭