Hi everyone I need some advice I started seeing this guy and it was our third date and I was planning to tell him about me having HSV2 once he got to know me better... but on Saturday we got really drunk and he started to undress me and we had sex even though I said NO Various times to him! I said I wanted to wait but tbh I feel like he took advantage of me...or felt comfortable doing what he did in the moment (I had no out break). I’m very upset about it. It was unprotected and when I woke up I thought it was a all dream and he said NO WE HAD sex. And I said but I kept telling you NO! and he played it off saying oh well it happened. I said why didn’t you use a condom?? And he said because he “trusts me” and condoms don’t make him cum. Now I’m upset, I feel guilty, mad at him, Idk what to do??!! My plan was supposed to be: wait till I tell him my condition once I’m more comfortable with him, he likes me more, and no sex before that. And now it’s all to waste...please help. I feel like if I come clean with him now he will be so mad and might want to press charges or sue me. Even though that wasn’t my intention. Should I say let’s go get tested or that I’m having symptoms? I’m lost...