He’s no good for me

I’m so sad over my breakup. I know he was manipulating me in a lot of ways. He told me a million ways I was failing in the relationship and I’m beginning to wonder what I could have done differently.. should I have given him better kisses when he said I was giving him weak kisses. Should i not complained about going to the lake all day bc I had to work that night and just went anyways.. I have low energy and he complained of that and me not liking the things he liked. He wanted my behavior to always be amazing and put him before anything or anyone. :( & when I didn’t I’d pay for it .... he would

Say I don’t appreciate him