Feeling Pressured

Hello, y’all I hope you don’t care if I vent on here lol. So yesterday my cousins and I decided to just make it a chill and drink day. ( We live together, we’re practicing distancing) And the topic was brought up about relationships and boyfriends or husbands. Well turns out everyone is in a relationship but me. My cousin who was my single partner surprised us yesterday in telling us she has a bf. Then they all told me “You have to be next” or “You need a man now” or “Hurry up , bring your bf next”

I just laughed and said, “Ya sure, soon or whatever “. Though the question did bug me. I’m 22, I haven’t had a serious relationship, I’ve had hooks ups or whatever but honestly relationships never was an importance for me. I love to be alone and do me stuff lol. But I do feel sad that all my family cares about is just me finding a man, and not that hey I got into a university and I’m starting in the fall, They don’t ask : How’s that going , What are your goals from there ? You know stuff like that, idk just wanted to vent, if anybody else feels the same way please feel free to share 😭☺️