wondering what to say

Lily • 14 @_lily.dixon_

So when I go to the doctor and they ask if i’m sexually active but I haven’t had intercourse but have had oral and been like grinded on should I say I am, and what if it was a long time ago do I need to say anything also will they tell my mom. It’s just her and my dad are going through a divorce and she will blame my dad for it even though she’s says when I have those feelings i can get brith control I just don’t want to start anything.