Finding out that my ex’s grandmother passed away and not getting told about it.

I just found out that my ex’s grandmother passed away this March. We broke up in January but I was very close to his grandmother to the point where I called her ‘Nonna’. I adored her dearly and she was the person I thought about the most after we broke up. I am saddened by the loss but I also feel betrayed that he didn’t contact me about this. Perhaps he didn’t want to bother me or look like he was trying win me back. I never want to be with him at all. I’m just angry that I never got notified of her death and I only found it by looking in the obituary.

In a way this does show me that I was correct in the fact that he really was not emotionally good with relationships at all. I do wish his family the best but I know I can never tell them this directly as I am no longer with him. However, I feel that without worrying about her and knowing she is finally at peace without suffering from health issues...I can finally move on. I don’t need to worry anymore about him or his family as harsh as that is, but I need to.

Well while I really hate my ex even more than I did before, I’m glad I got to meet her and have her wonderful Italian cooking. She was always sweet to me, she never liked the negative jokes he did and I’ll never forget her kindness. I will indeed continue to be that ‘strong woman’ she said she was proud of having around.