Stop encouraging women to cheat bc their man is an asshole

It doesn't matter what the man (or woman) has done or is doing!

If he's not making you happy...

If he's not keeping you happy...

If he's treating you like shit...

If he's talking down to you...

If he's putting his hands on you...

If he's making you cry constantly...

If he's making you question your sanity...

If he's sexually abusing you...

If he's says "it's not rape if we're in a relationship"...

If he's gaslighting you...

If he's putting you down in front of your family or friends...

If he's putting you down to his family or friends...

If he's treating you like trash in front of your child...

If he's cheating...

If he's threatening to cheat...

If he's using dating apps...

If he's body shaming you...

If he talks down to your child...

If he puts his hands on your child...

If he's using a mental health diagnosis as an excuse for bad behavior...

If he's using alcohol or alcoholism as an excuse for bad behavior...

If he's using drugs or drug addiction as an excuse for bad behavior...

If he's using the fact that he's the bread winner as an excuse for bad behavior...

If he's using the fact that you're "only" a stay at home mom as an excuse for bad behavior...

If he's insulting your intelligence...

If he's putting you down because of where you come from...

If he's threatening to hurt you if you try to leave...

If he's threatening to hurt himself if you try to leave...

If he's smashing/breaking/destroying things when he's angry or upset...

If he tells you what you're allowed to do...

If he tells you where you're allowed to go...

If he tells you who you're allowed to talk to...

If he uses his jealousy to justify his actions...

If he's using your children against you...

If he's threatening to take your children away from you...

If he's using your children to make you feel guilty...

If he's making you feel uncomfortable in anyway...

If he's breaking the boundaries that you've set...

L E A V E!

I know it can seem easier said than done. But please... reach out to a family member, reach out to a friend, find a shelter, find a church, call an abuse hotline... do not be afraid to ask for help!

Whatever you ARE NOT changing... you ARE CHOOSING.