Overthinking?

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So my husband goes to this certain gas station all the time. He always adds the workers on fb... well there’s a girl there who’s always changing her hair to different colors... he added her on fb and is liking all her stuff. 
Well he shared this meme about “sometimes all you need is some sloppy top from a girl with pink hair” 
I feel like I’m overthinking things but it still bothers me

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Do you have pink hair? If not, that’s wildly inappropriate. I mean I would be extremely embarrassed if my SO shared anything like that on social media anyway.

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Ugh. I literally hate social media. Liking photos if girls you don't both personally know is just crossing a line for me. 😑
Maybe I'm uptight, but I can just see where it can lead to. Also, in general, I have tight boundaries, particularly when it comes to $hit like this.
I'd tell him how you feel. Let him choose between adding random gas station girls 🙄😒, or keeping his wife happy. 
My theory is: If you live me, and it upsets me, is it worth it? Is it that important? 
If it is, things aren't right.
Sorry you're feelin' this right now. 💗

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Naw you aren’t over thinking at all what’s the irony of him sharing a meme like that anyway smh

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I don't think you are overreacting or overthinking it seems inappropriate to me. Sorry

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Yeah that’s weird. Why is he adding them all? Are they friends? And that post he made (unless you have pink hair) is pretty much a slap to your face tbh.

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I think I would ask him wtf his deal is 💁🏻 I’m petty bc i would have it all pulled up on my phone so when says what are you talking about I could turn my phone around like uhhh this like you don’t know 😂 . Yup I’d have a huge issue with it bc it’s extremely inappropriate and not acceptable if your in a relationship . And I be pissed

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Mmm idk if he doesn't act like this with the other workers he's added it might seem a little weird to me, but I'm also an insecure anxiety filled person 😂 
Not the best help I know. 
For real though if it makes you uncomfortable, try and talk to him about how it makes you feel. If he loves and respects you then he'll stop. No excuses! Do not ignore your feelings because you have a right to feel the way you do, even if they end up being you worried for nothing. You'll never know unless you talk about it. You know your man, you know if he's lying or being shady. Talking about it will give you all the info you need whether it's him being truthful and respectful or not.

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Does he comment on the other workers pages?

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My ex picked up a woman at a gas station he frequented. Would not shock me the least bit.

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Thank all of y’all for y’alls input! I’m glad I’m not just crazy..

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