When you have a big arguement with your spouse l, do either of you say you want to end the relationship just because you’re so mad?

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I voted never. We’ve been together 10 years (married 3) and it hasn’t been said in years, and definitely not since the baby was born.

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Never. My husband and I met when we were in college and both agreed back then that we don't play games and say stuff out of anger and in the 11 years we've been together we've probably "fought" maybe 4 times. We always say what we mean. IF it was ever said it would be serious and would not be taken lightly at all.

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We’ve been together for 6 years and it has never come up (yet, but hopefully it never will). My husband very early on once said “you should leave me” or something nonsensical when he was so drunk he couldn’t take his own clothes off and I snapped and made sure he knew the next morning not to say BS like that unless he means it (now that I’m writing this I was probably a bit over dramatic then, but I still think that that’s not something you just blurt out as a threat unless you mean it)

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My fiance knows I have abandonment issues from my mom, and that my ex would use it against me (threatening to leave me to get his way, while also saying no one else would ever love me). So, he would never do that, and I wouldn't either because of how it felt to me before.
That being said, we rarely fight. We might have arguments, but we also discuss them as calmly as possible. This is in part due to my history (I hate yelling) and because my fiance is a very calm man.

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We’ve been together 17 years and married for 5. It’s come up three times. Once super recently. That was not a good week.

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Lately more than on average throughout our whole relationship (we've been together 13 years). It's always me. I think if my husband said it I'd have a meltdown, but I have a habit towards dramatics, and also am often at the end of my rope with the two little ones (oldest about to turn 3) and working full time from home and the pandemic and hormones and exhaustion and so many other things, that when he plays "too many video games" I just feel sometimes like I can't deal. 
But we have already agreed that this stage of our life is way too crazy to make any big decisions, and since nobody's being harmed or abused in any way, and neither of us wants more kids, we've agreed that we will not split up until the kids are older and we're getting more sleep and we're not living in three rooms in my parents' house so we can determine if it's just the craziness externally that's making it harder to connect with each other, or if we're actually done. We're also trying to do better for each other (I need more attention, he needs more leeway with cleaning) so we don't make sure we hate each other in 5 years!

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I voted never but we have been together since we were 16. Married for almost 8 and together for 16 so the threat has come up here and there. Not recently but def within these 16yrs

When you have a big arguement with your spouse l, do either of you say you want to end the relationship just because you’re so mad?

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