What do you ladies think?

So idc about social media but I have my baby dad on Snapchat. Yet, I send a friend request on Instagram over a week ago and he hasnt accepted it. But is totally fine with sending/liking girls pictures... he said he needs to be on Snapchat to make sure I don’t say who’s the father of my unborn baby . He wants to wait to announce it on his own terms. That doesn’t seem fair right?!?