What do I do?!? WHAT DOES THIS MEAN‼️‼️😢

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Lately my husband has been jacking off while I’m home more than he has sex with me. And if I confront him about it he gets mad and Denys it. No matter what I do he won’t just tell me the truth. It hurts my feelings especially when I’m laying next to him he says he’s going to the restroom and he makes it obvious. Like IM RIGHT HERE NEXT TO YOU!!!!!

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Are you ttc? If you are then maybe see if he is trying to avoid pregnancy.

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This happened to me once so when my boyfriend would go jack off I would not say anything Wait awhile and then I would do the same to him I would go play with myself and not invite him for any fun and I would make sure he knew I was doing it without actually having to tell him hey I'm going to go do this blah blah blah anyways once he got a taste of his own medicine he stopped jacking off and started having sex with me!!!

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How do you approach him about this? Are you calm and non-confrontational or angry and annoyed?
At the end of the day if he wants to take care of himself instead of have sex then that's his right, but what's his current reason? Is he too tired, does he maybe have a porn addiction, etc? Or does he even give you any reason?

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Listen hun, all men do it! It doesn’t matter how attractive you are or how much sex you have men still like that kind of stuff. Is it wrong? Not necessarily but it can make us women feel very hurt and insecure. The best thing you can do is talk to him, communication is key. However it can back fire on you because men don’t like to be confronted about stuff like that. It’s a private moment for them. It’s something you kind of just have to deal with. It will only get him so far. You could try to spice up your sex life a little more and make things more exciting. Go on his history and see what exactly he likes or suggest watching it with him. Overall I know exactly how you feel I dealt with that for years and it honestly just brought me down and it’s nothing you can control. Just know that you are beautiful and he still finds you attractive ALL men do this.

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Since you’re pregnant he may be scared to hurt the baby? Maybe I’m wrong but I’m just trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. I’m so sorry this is happening. My heart goes out to you!

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Having sex is like having a nice 3 course meal...a savory appetizer followed by a big juicy steak and then a decadent dessert. Bread baskets and salads and antipasto with drinks and coffee. It's amazing but also time consuming.
Jacking off is like grabbing a bag of chips from the pantry. Quick and hits the spot.
They are vastly different experiences that garner the same result.
Sometimes a person just wants to address their needs without having to go thru the whole song and dance. (The flirting, the initiation, the possible rejection, the foreplay, getting you off and then finally finishing.)
Its normal but talk to him about it if it bothers you.

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