Not sexually compatible

I’ve been in a relationship with my kids dad for a long time. But we argue every day about sex. I’m pregnant right now it just has me thinking I’m going to be stuck with all these kids alone because I don’t want to deal with being pressured about sex everyday. It’s never enough for him. I give it to him once then he expects it again like damn the same day. I’m going through a lot right now - hyperemesis and my arm is broken. On top of this I’m just tired of being pressured I can’t take it anymore.

Add on: I understand men have needs too, I want to please him don’t get me wrong but I’m not in the mood because I’m literally feeling like shit it becomes a issue. And he sexualizes everything - for example he’s had to help me bathe since my injury but he’ll turn it into sticking his finger in me or wanting a bj... like we can’t just bathe me? Any chance he gets he has to run my vagina or want me to kiss him passionately like with all our kids running around - he doesn’t even care if our door is open I get mortified at the thought of one of our kids one day seeing him touch me sexually.

He’s manipulative and quite honestly I don’t know how to shake him. I’m scared to be alone with our kids. But I know in my heart I don’t want to be with this man. We get into heated arguments every week about sex. Imagine doing this for years straight I feel dumb.