Just wondering

How would you ladies feel if your husband left 9 hours away on a plane with out your or your 2 kids to go with some guy friends . Not work business related but just to go to a studio ... and not even invite you at all .. keep in mind he doesn’t help you with the kids at all and is always out doing anything to not be home any excuse ... I’m so tired of it ... idk what to do he just don’t care