Does the spark exist? ✨

Question

This is a bit of a strange one. 
So I’ve been with my partner for 2.5 years and we met on tinder. Which I think is kinda the start of my issues. I just feel like we’re missing that “spark”. Like you see in the movies. I find myself wishing I could have that kind of relationship whenever I’m watching romantic shows or movies. Is the spark unrealistic? Or is it only something you feel at the start? Sometimes I feel like I don’t really know my partner. Even tho I know everything about my partner! But we went from strangers to being in a relationship. 
Something just doesn’t feel quite right and I’m not too sure what to do.....

Answer

I felt the “spark” with my ex who was addicted to drugs and would have took me on a roller coaster if we tried to stay together. With the guy I’m marrying in a few days, it was always just comfortable and easy. For example, on our first date we stayed up all night talking and didn’t think anything of it until we saw the light of morning.

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Well I'm addicted to those sparks, but they are not always the sign of something good or lasting.
Sometimes the spark be like: "how about you obsess over this emotionally unavailable person"

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I think Sparks in real life is just good chemistry. But comparing your relationship to a movie is unrealistic. It was written that way but real life doesn't work that way. If you spend your time looking for a movie relationship you will never find what you want. I say you need to put yourself back in reality and explore your relationship without comparison. If you still aren't happy. Let him go.

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I don’t think this is about meeting on Tinder... I went on a million tinder dates before meeting my husband and yeah, I didn’t really click or feel super excited about any of them UNTIL my husband. When I met him I knew right away that he was exactly what I was looking for. I had all of the butterflies/sparks/fireworks 😍
He’s not a super romantic person with surprises and flowers, but we’re verrry affectionate and 4 years later we still love spending time alone together on trips, date nights or just home on the couch. He’s my best friend hands down. 
I don’t know how old you are or what stage of life you’re in, but it’s possible you’re just not quite ready to settle down if you’re looking for something more but you’re not sure what..

Does the spark exist? ✨

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