Is this creepy/inappropriate?

When I was about 3 or 4 years old I would sometimes stay with my aunt and her girlfriend at that time. My aunt would help me bathe before bedtime and I believe she left it up to me to wash and clean my vagina. My family and I moved overseas and pretty much lost contact with her and her partner. Fast forward to several years (me being 16 years old) I went back to my home town for a funeral and was reunited with my aunt. After we greeted each other, she got close to my ear (we were surrounded by family and friends) and laughingly asked if my outer lips were still big. I was so taken aback and it instantly made me feel very uncomfortable. It has made me wonder if that's what she would comment every time she saw my vagina as a toddler?

It has been so many years since and I'm still wondering if I have reason to feel weirded out or if that was just a normal "girl talk" between aunt and niece? I ask because I have 4 nieces and as babies I've never looked at their vaginas and thought anything of it or made any type of comments.

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