"Babies are meant to be shared. I always let people hold my kids"

Ummm they are children, not toys. Would you make your child share a toy with a random kid because it was the polite thing to do?

If I don't want anyone holding my child I shouldn't have to explain my reasoning or try to justify myself because the simple answer will always be "because it's my kid".

If someone asks me why me and the father can kiss the baby but they can't, my answer, "it's my baby..."

If someone complains about not being able to do this or that with the baby but I can, my answer, "it's my baby."

If you want to raise a child your way or "share" it like a toy with anyone then have your own baby. Carry your own baby for 9 months and birth it. Leave mine alone 😤