Relationships make me feel bad about myself?

Question

Why do I feel like absolute garbage whenever I date or get close to people?
I just feel like I'm garbage & not good enough for anyone at all. Like, nobody would ever want to be with me, and I'm trash, not even like a real person.
But alone, I feel great & totally love myself. I am usually happy single & find things to fill my time with fulfilling activities...
But, I know I avoid dating because of hidden insecurities and I don't really know what to do with those. 
I'm not really sure if maybe I belong alone, as well? I've been wondering off and in since I was 14 if I'm cut out for relationships- I'm 31 & none of my relationships worked, no long term relationships, a lot of unhealthy dynamics. I'm used to just leaving when things get too uncomfortable, and things always do get that way. 
What's up with me 🙃

Answer

Being able to recognize that your own toxic habits are the root of the problem is a start. And whenever you begin another relationship, being able to communicate that to your partner when things begin to go badly is the next important step. From there on, it's up to your partner to keep up communication with you and work through those problems with you. If hes the one, he'll be able to work through that with you

Answer

Did you suffer any kind of abuse growing up? Maybe subconsciously you’re connecting your relationships with negative experiences, and sort of unintentionally creating self fulfilling prophecies, so to speak. Maybe talk to a counselor of sorts? 
Either that or try to work out the similarities/differences and problems that were in all of your relationships. Perhaps there’s some sort of identifying pattern, and maybe you can change that after your figure it out

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Stop being comfortable with running away and learn to handle things differently.. if people have actually given u the time of day then there are people who do see u as a human and more

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You just have to find somebody that’s makes you feel good about your self and is proud of you for feeling good about yourself it takes time to find the right person but you will and if you don’t want a companion but you want babies there’s other options but if you want neither that’s totally fine maybe you just need to figure out what you want in a relationship and what makes you uncomfortable and make sure they know before diving in

Relationships make me feel bad about myself?

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