Birth control help !!

Okay so , I’ve literally tried every type of birth control except the iud and nothing works for me. It runs in the family and the reason being for not trying the iud is because my mother had uterine cancer. I just got the nexplanon removed for issues I’ve been going through for a year and a half and also had it once before as well with the same issues. So they put me on a different type of pill. It resulted in headaches in the back of my head and neck pain. So my nurse told me to stop taking it and honestly feels as if my body is just disagreeing with everything I try. Okay so result to condoms which as we know. Isn’t the most effective “birth control” not to mention my husband and I have been together for 6 years and never used condoms. They make me super dry even with lube involved and I just can’t get off with using one. At this point I honestly don’t know what to do and feel so upset with my body. I don’t want anymore kids right this second. But do in the future. I already have 2. We are considering my husband getting a Vasectomy because it can possibly be un done. But still haven’t decided. Are there any other possible suggestions you guys have ? Or anyone else going through something similar ? Thank you ❤️🥺